Here in the Pacific Northwest, we’re all soaking up the last few golden weeks of summer—those long evenings, river dips, backyard dinners, and adventures to the coast or Gorge. And if you’re like me, you want that time away to leave you feeling refreshed, not like you need another vacation to recover from your vacation.

The secret? Relaxation that actually works for you.

Here are five ways I’ve learned to set myself up for a vacation that nourishes me—and hopefully they’ll do the same for you.

1. Leave Work at Work
Even in real estate (where life never fully stops), I’ve learned the magic of boundaries. Setting expectations with clients and coworkers before leaving makes all the difference. Let people know you’ll be away, who’s covering in your absence, and then—deep breath—set the “Out of Office” and change your voicemail.
If you absolutely must check in, give yourself a set window of time to do it (mornings work best for me) so the rest of the day is yours.

2. Define What Relaxation Means to You
Relaxation doesn’t look the same for everyone. For some, it’s a music festival; for others, it’s a silent retreat. I’ve found that making a list of times and places when I last felt truly at ease helps me figure out what I need now. Give yourself permission to redefine what “vacation” means this year.

3. Shift Your Attention
Here’s the truth: you can fly across the world, but if your brain stays tethered to your inbox, it won’t feel like a break. Ask yourself: What do I get lost in, outside of work? Maybe it’s hiking trails, paddleboarding, curling up with a good book, exploring a new city, or sipping your morning coffee slowly. Build those simple joys into your time away.

4. Give Yourself the Gift of Time
It takes me about three days before I truly unwind. Knowing this, I plan my vacations with enough breathing room. If you can swing it, allow yourself at least a week so you don’t just decompress—you recharge.

5. Stay Within Your Budget
With the market shifting and costs creeping up, I know many of us are keeping an eye on expenses. But relaxation doesn’t have to mean a pricey trip. Road trips, camping, and even staycations can be deeply restorative when approached with intention. Stressing over money defeats the whole purpose of taking time off.

Why It Matters
The benefits of real rest extend far beyond your week away. You’ll come back clearer, more creative, more present with your family and community—and yes, even better at navigating the ups and downs of life and work.

So here’s my wish for you this summer: a vacation that fills your cup, supports your spirit, and reminds you of what matters most.

Cheers to slowing down and soaking it all in! Happy Summer!